Make My Day
THE THREE PHASES OF PARENTING
by Erik Deckers
American Reporter Humor Writer
SYRACUSE, Ind. -- I recently became a proud father for the third time, and although I love and adore my new son, I've noticed my standards for obsessive care and compulsive hovering have lowered quite a bit.
I've heard that most new parents will agonize over every little detail about doing what's best for their child, but that they relax significantly after the second and even third child come along.
I've even noticed my own constant worrying and stress has decreased to the point where my blood pressure is nearly normal, and I think my hair is growing back.
And after analyzing the charts and graphs that every new parent keeps, I think I've discovered a pattern in every facet of child raising.
First Child: Your name was inspired by a woman of royalty. She was loved by millions.
Second Child: Your name was inspired by a beloved member of the family. Everyone loved her.
Third Child: Your name was inspired by my favorite professional
wrestler, Hulk Hogan. He could beat the crap out of anybody.
Holding the new baby
First Child: We're the only ones who can hold her.
Second Child: You can hold her, but you have to wash your hands first.
Third Child: Someone please hold this kid for me!
Food and Feeding
First Child: I will feed you only pesticide-free organic foods that I've prepared by hand in a carefully-sanitized kitchen.
Second Child: I will feed you baby foods from a jar that don't have preservatives or additives.
Third Child: Do you want corn dogs or chili dogs for breakfast?
First Child: Don't run in the house. You could fall and hurt yourself.
Second Child: Don't run with scissors.
Third Child: How many times do I have to tell you, wear safety
goggles when you're using my table saw?!
First Child: I will give you toys that are fun AND educational.
Second Child: I will give you toys that give you hours of entertainment.
Third Child: Don't play with Daddy's good chainsaw.
First Child: You need to go to bed by 8:30.
Second Child: You need to go to bed by 9:00.
Third Child: It's 11:30, I'm going to bed. Turn the tv off when
First Child: It's a little chilly. Put on your jacket, a hat, gloves, and a scarf.
Second Child: It's a little chilly. Put on a sweater.
Third Child: Did we forget your pants again?
First Child: We'll start her potty training when she's two-and-a-half.
Second Child: She'll let us know when she's ready to start potty training.
Third Child: He'll figure it out by the time he gets to high
First Child: You can watch one hour of educational tv per day.
Second Child: You can watch two hours of regular tv per day.
Third Child: My tv is broken, can I watch yours?
First Child: Your baths will be a mixture of sparkling Spring water and pasteurized milk with essential oils
Second Child: Your baths will be a mixture of warm water and baby oil
Third Child: We'll hose you off in the backyard twice a week.
First Child: You're going to get the finest education we can provide.
Second Child: You're going to get the finest education we can provide.
Third Child: Go ask your know-it-all sisters.
First Child: Turn that crap down!
Second Child: Turn that crap down!
Third Child: Why can't you listen to something decent, like your
First Child: A temperature of 100?! Rush her to the hospital!
Second Child: A temperature of 100?! Give her some Children's Motrin.
Third Child: A temperature of 100?! I'm not doing anything until
he starts projectile vomiting.
Living at home
First Child: You can live here as long as you want.
Second Child: Wouldn't you like to get your own place after college?
Third Child: What are you still doing here?