by Joyce Marcel
American Reporter Correspondent
April 7, 2011
DIFFERENT DRUMMER, DIFFERENT DRUM
TRENTON, N.J., March 31, 2011 -- The change of seasons, especially in the East, brings bucolic dreams of springtime, and of its sister, baseball. And once again, it is Opening Day.
For many, the game recaptures a pastoral time and the remembrance of childhood aimlessly spent, rather than the problems of free-agency and steroids, the greed of players and owners alike, and the spiraling problems of baseball today.
Sixty years ago, the man who had been voted the greatest living baseball player of his generation retired at the age of 37. Twelve years ago today, he died quietly. Few of us remember him playing baseball.
Joe DiMaggio was celebrated then as the complete ballplayer, the one whose name is linked to the most difficult of all records- the 56-game hitting streak.
Baseball historians wax eloquent, saying that this achievement shows how the game can overcome the very limitations of morality. Such odds-defying consistency proves that we can triumph over failure and even over death itself. `Baseball writing is a game of great hyperbole. But still, in more modest terms, DiMaggio remains fixed in the popular imagination long after any of us can remember seeing him play. He has become a graceful American icon-a hero like Achilles, about whom Homer wrote eons ago.
But enduring heroes are individuals whose achievements are linked with causes and ideologies greater than they. For us, DiMaggio is a symbol of endurance, of grace under pressure, of consistency at high levels of achievement.
Even his disastrous marriage to Marilyn Monroe ends up playing well. For when all is said and done, he, of all her lovers, was the only one to tend to her remains. He sent roses every week to her gravesite for more than two decades. As she once said, .How can I get angry with Joe, for he loved me so.
Monroe thoughtlessly remarked to him once, upon returning from entertaining the troops in South Korea,"You don't know what it's like to hear such cheering."
"Yes, I do," DiMaggio replied.
In his lifetime, DiMaggio became for Americans the symbol of excellence. When he asked why he played so intensely while hurt, he said that somewhere in the stands was a kid who had never seen him play before. Achievement, excellence and upholding standards - internal and demanding - are today the rare characteristics associated with his name.
Joe DiMaggio came to represent a unique and once-common view of manhood in contemporary America- a style and substance that is now gone. He grew up in a traditional Italian-American circle of quiet and sullen men who realized that life is harsh, love is passing and death is one's constant companion.
Men of his generation lived in a world of intense competition, proud loyalties and strong endurance. They believed in traditional roles, set expectations and personal honor. They conducted their day-to-day business with a handshake and their word.
The family, the schools and the church believed in training children in rigorous moral codes of right and wrong, obligation and commitment. It was a view of manhood with clear expectations that infused the uncertainty of adolescence with certain rites of passage.
Boys were told that men do not show emotion. They do not cry. They do not whine and complain. This emotional callousness produced a more resilient male- one that is seen now for what it is; a period piece. DiMaggio never departed from this pattern of behavior.
DiMaggio was not as much fun as Babe Ruth, but he was more noble, he was more classical and he was almost ethereal at times, in setting his achievements in stone. He set the standards of excellence he lived by.
He became an American icon, not just because of sports or popular culture, but often in spite of them. He performed almost flawlessly, without effort, it seemed, while he defied the physical pain and the emotional tension inside him.
Our society has moved away from the traditional assumptions, away from understandings that DiMaggio and his generation of men took for granted. But the excesses of the present will lead to a re-evaluation of the past.
When that happens again and again, DiMaggio will remain immortal, for another icon will be denied flesh and blood, and thus will become the idealized example of a far different way of life that has a rediscovered appeal.
AR Correspondent Michael Riccards is a political scientist, writer, and professor, and winner of Fulbright, Henry Huntington and National Endowment for the Arts fellowships. Riccards has been the president of three American colleges and has writes on public policy, the political process, and the American presidency.